Perhaps it’s time to start choosing our own endings instead of having them chosen for us.
In a world that values human doing over human being, to “quit” something has gotten a bad rap.
We often associate quitting with giving up or not following through-assuming that to quit is to fail.
When, in reality, everything has a lifecycle-a beginning and an end. Quitting is a natural part of ending. Ending by choice.
And we’ve certainly had a front-row seat to a tremendous amount of endings in the past 18 months-many of these endings happening out of our control.
“I have been blessed to be a blessing to others.” When I first heard those words, they went straight to my heart.
(Front of card): “I have been blessed to be a blessing to others.” (Back): “Pass it on.”
I first picked up this powerful proclamation from a minister when I was singing in my cousin’s choir at St. Andrew’s Cathedral in Honolulu, Hawaii.
And when I heard those words, they went straight to my heart.
Not only did I instantly appreciate all of the blessings that I’d received in my life, but I also realized that sharing those blessings…
Our heads have a lot of experience, but so do our hearts. Thoughts are important, but so are feelings. Can you learn to trust your heart as much as your head?
Starting a new year is always cathartic.
Between thinking back on the lessons learned of the past year, and imagining forward into visions of the new year, there’s always a lot of data for our heads to process.
And taking time to process our thoughts is good brain food.
So what about our hearts?
Our heads have a lot of experience, but so do our hearts. …
When we think something, that’s one step. But when we express thoughts or feelings out loud, they start gaining momentum.
Have any of these phrases escaped your mouth lately?
I will admit to 1, 2, and 3. And well, okay-4 slipped out a time or two, but what can you do? Expressing how we feel is the first step to relief.
And although expressing our feelings can be helpful, the real root of our stress comes primarily from the thoughts we focus on and the words…
Feeling happy during a pandemic almost sounds like a contradiction in terms. When in truth, the only way to be truly happy and healthy is to feel good first.
Feeling happy during a pandemic almost sounds like a contradiction in terms.
With all the serious issues currently facing us, it seems like the pursuit of feeling good might not only be viewed as ignorant, but even selfish and shameful.
Whenever we’re in the dark for a long time and lose our sense of time and direction, our fears may point us to what’s bad about this and what’s not working.
Analogies and metaphors have always helped me make sense of things I couldn’t understand; they have built bridges between gaps in my knowledge and experience over the years.
Lately, I’ve been equating the COVID-19 pandemic to the experience of going through a tunnel (which most of us have been through before, whether by train, subway, car, or another vehicle).
When we first enter a tunnel, we are temporarily cast…
One moment things were going swimmingly. And then the next, doubt stepped in and changed everything.
I’ve been working on a new project recently that has challenged me to be flexible and agile-I’ve had to rethink my process for a task that I’ve known how to do for years.
With routines having shifted dramatically due to the COVID pandemic, we’re all having to be flexible and agile in our approach, even for work that we may’ve been doing the same way for a long time.
From a professional perspective, the project was going quite well. But I had a personal…
So what’s wrong with waiting, anyway? Nothing. We’re just not accustomed to doing it very well anymore.
It’s July 2020 and who would have thought we’d still be in the middle of a global pandemic?
Maybe the scientists and epidemiologists did, but certainly not the rest of us. Especially us Americans.
While other parts of the planet are beginning to experience the other side of COVID-19, the U.S. didn’t quite get the message the first time. And now we’re paying the price. Big time.
Many U.S. states lifted restrictions too quickly so that they could “get back to normal”-but as…
If you’re currently looking for work, you’ve got homework to do. But the good news is that doing this work will not only affect your career, but every other aspect of your life.
I’ve got good news and bad news.
First, the bad news: If you’re currently looking for work, you’ve got homework to do.
Homework? Seriously? I know, I know. Nobody likes to do homework.
But here’s the good news: This homework is something you already know well. This homework is on yourself. And the benefits of doing this now will become permanent.
In fact, doing this work will…
Much like the Chinese symbol for crisis — presenting both danger and opportunity — there are many gifts being born of this pandemic.
In every situation there are a multitude of perspectives, and COVID-19 is no exception.
On the one hand, we’ve got a global viral pandemic that the world hasn’t seen since the outbreak of the Spanish Flu in 1918. On the other, we have society coming together in displays of solidarity, kindness, and support for one another.
As my friend and colleague Sayre Darling so poignantly says, “It only took a pandemic…”
While you may label any of…